Girls: Please Read & Share This – Especially If You Party Out

The drink which you thought was safe next to you is being spiked because you took your eyes off it.

Just got a forward about a girl being picked up from a Mumbai nightclub by five men and gang raped before being dumped at Bandstand. The forward that I got did not have a dateline, so I cannot be sure if and when it happened.

The forward goes on to state that the victim was unable to remember the unfortunate events. Medical tests confirmed the repeat rapes along with traces of Rohypnol in her blood.

While the authenticity of the story cannot be confirmed, what can be said with a degree of certainty is that Rohypnol is a sedative that has been used in many 'date rapes' in the US, with cases now being reported in Europe and Australia. Disturbingly, it has found its way into party circuits in Bangalore, Mumbai and Delhi.

The Times of India report in February 2005 wrote about a 23-year-old girl who was under the influence of some drugs and did not even know she had been raped. “It was only when she missed her menstrual cycle that she discovered she was pregnant. She had to resort to an abortion. Her parents freaked out when the found out and got her married off to an NRI.”

The drug has earned notoriety to trap girls and abuse them sexually as it leaves the victim with no memory of what happened. A drop of Rohypnol into the girl's drink is all that is required to help the evil design of the men.

Rohypnol, which dissolves in drinks easily, is such that the victim doesn't conceive from the rape and the rapist needn't worry about having a paternity test identifying him months later.

The damage from drug is believed to be permanent. The female apparently cannot ever conceive.

Rohypnol's medical use is as a pre-operation anesthetic or strong sleeping pill, but stronger doses can bring on amnesia. It takes effect very quickly - sometimes as quick as 10 minutes after being taken - and reaches its peak eight hours later when it can render a person totally unconscious. It's about ten times stronger than Valium.

Rohypnol has also been used in combination with other drugs to enhance the effects of low grade heroin, to mellow the buzz from crack and heroin, and to soften comedowns.

The drug has also acquired a reputation as a party drug, sometimes dubbed the 'love drug'. This is due to its claimed aphrodisiac qualities and because some users say that it gets you more drunk and keeps you that way longer.

It is fairly rare in the UK (although rising), but in the US it has a street price of around $2-4 per tablet.

The most worrying side effect of Rohypnol is that it can easily be administered without the victim’s knowledge and lengthy sexual assaults can take place with the victim having no memory of events afterwards. In many cases, victims are even unaware that assaults have taken place until their symptoms are recognized or their memory returns. It's a very nasty drug.

Apparently, there are websites showing potential offender how to use it!

Girls:

1. Even if you are just having soft drinks, you need to be cautious. DON’T LEAVE YOUR DRINKS – soft or hard – UNATTENDED. If you mistakenly leave it unattended, DON’T HAVE THAT DRINK. Please remember: In most cases the assailant is a person known to the victim or even a friend.

2. BUY YOUR OWN DRINKS.

3. ENSURE bottles are UNOPENED or cans are SEALED.

4. STRICTLY, DON’T EVEN TASTE SOMEONE ELSE’S DRINK.

5. If you feel odd, nauseous or drunk after only a couple of drinks, leave immediately and go to a place of safety. If you are alone or with a stranger, call friends to tell them where you are and/or go to the landlord or manager and explain your situation.

IT’S BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY

Please forward this to everyone you know – ESPECIALLY GIRLS. Guys, please share this info with your sisters and other girls so that they do not unwittingly become victims.

Help the students

If you have come across any bright students coming from poor financial background who have finished their 10th standard this year and scored more than 80%, please ask them to contact the NGO-Prerana (supported by Infosys foundation). The NGO is conducting a written test and those who clear the test will be eligible for financial help for their further studies.

Please ask the students to contact the people mentioned below to get the form:

#580, Shubhakar, 44th cross,
1st A main road, jayanagar 7th block,
Bangalore.

Contact numbers:
1. Saraswati - 9900906338
2. Shivkumar - 9986630301
3. Bindu - 9964534667

Even if you don't know anyone, please pass on this info... someone might be in need of this help desperately. ..

Why Me, Mom?

I went to a party, Mom.
I remembered what you said.
You told me not to drink, Mom,
So I drank soda instead.

I really felt proud inside, Mom,
The way you said I would.
I didn't drink and drive, Mom,
Even though the others said I should.

I know I did the right thing, Mom,
I know you are always right.
Now the party is finally ending, Mom,
As everyone is driving out of sight.

As I got into my car, Mom,
I knew I'd get home in one piece.
Because of the way you raised me,
So responsible and sweet.

I started to drive away, Mom,
But as I pulled out into the road,
The other car didn't see me, Mom,
And hit me like a load.

As I lay there on the pavement, Mom,
I hear the policeman say,
"The other guy is drunk," Mom,
And now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying, Mom....
I wish you'd get here soon.
How could this happen to me, Mom?
My life just burst like a balloon.

There is blood all around me, Mom,
And most of it is mine.
I hear the medic say, Mom,
I'll die in a short time.

I just wanted to tell you, Mom,
I swear I didn't drink.
It was the others, Mom.
The others didn't think.

He was probably at the same party as I.
The only difference is, he drank
And I will die.

Why do people drink, Mom?
It can ruin your whole life.
I'm feeling sharp pains now.
Pains just like a knife.

The guy who hit me is walking, Mom,
And I don't think it's fair.
I'm lying here dying
And all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom.
Tell Daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven, Mom,
Put "Good Boy" on my grave.

Someone should have told him, Mom,
Not to drink and drive.
If only they had told him, Mom,
I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, Mom.
I'm becoming very scared.
Please don't cry for me, Mom.
When I needed you, you were always there.

I have one last question, Mom.
Before I say good bye.
I didn't drink and drive,
So why am I the one to die?

 

The message is subtly and emotionally conveyed but the truth is harsh. We may be on right track but if other person is not we have to suffer for that. What is the solution other than awareness. Please share this with as many people as you can.

Think before chatting


 EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE CHILDREN READ IT TOO!

 After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and
get on-line.
 She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy
List and    
 saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

 ByAngel213:

 Hi I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today.
It was    
 really weird!

 GoTo123:

 LOL You watch too much TV.. Why would someone be following you?

 Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?

 ByAngel213:

 Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see
anybody when  
 I looked out.

 GoTo123:

 Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?

 ByAngel213:

 Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.

 GoTo123:

 Did you have a softball game after school today?

 ByAngel213:

 Yes and we won!!

 GoTo123:

 That's great! Who did you play?

 ByAngel213:

 We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look
like bees. LOL


 GoTo123:

 What is your team called?

 ByAngel213:

 We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are
really cool.


 GoTo1 23:

 Did you pitch?

 ByAngel213:

 No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before
my parents  
 get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!

 GoTo123:

 Catch you later.. Bye

 Meanwhile... ....GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search
for her      
 profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He
took out a pen
 and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.

 Her name:  Shannon

 Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985

 Age: 13

 State where she lived:  North Carolina

 Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this

 information, he knew she lived in Canton  because she had just told
him. He knew  
 she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her
parents came home
 from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the
school team,
 and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was
printed on her  
 jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the  Canton Junior High
School.    
 She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He
had enough  
 information to find her now.

 Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home
from the      
 ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her
from walking
 home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and
hers were the  
 worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had
brothers and  
 sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.

 By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

 Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at
her. It was  
 then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base
position to  
 see a man watching her closely.

 He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when
she looked  
 at him.. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden
fear she had  
 felt.

 After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach.
She noticed  
 his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled
back. He    
 noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

 Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few
blocks to        
 Shannon 's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned
to the park  
 to get his car.

 Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time
came to go to  
 Shannon 's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there
until time to  
 make his move.

 Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in
the living    
 room.

 "Shannon, come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she
couldn't        
 imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark
sitting on  
 the sofa.

 "Sit down," her father began, "this man has just told us a most
interesting story
 about you."

 Shannon  sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had
never seen him
 before today!

 "Do you know who I am,  Shannon ?" the man asked.

 "No,"  Shannon  answered.

 "I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."

 Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's
14. And he    
 lives in  Michigan !"

 The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You
see,        
 Shannon, there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of
them. But  
 while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group
of parents  
 who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to
teach you    
 how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough
about yourself  
 to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to,
the name of
 your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on
your jersey    
 just made finding you a breeze."

 Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in  Michigan?"

 He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh. It made you feel safe to think I
was so far  
 away, didn't it?"

 She nodded.

 "I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky.
The guy    
 found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught
not to tell  
 anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The
wrong people
 trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line.
Before you
 know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even
realizing    
 you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't
do it        
 again.. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"

 "It's a promise!"

 That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and
thanked God    
 for protecting  Shannon  from what could have been a tragic
situation..

Create Table without using mouse and menus

Do you know It's possible to create Table without using mouse and menus in MS word and Outlook. Here its that.

Type the content (+--+---+--+) in Microsoft Word and press Enter. One row of a table will be created and for more rows you can press TAB.

Step 1:

+----+--------+-----+

Step 2: (After pressing Enter having the cursor at the last -+-Result will be like the below one)

 

 

 

Step 3: (press TAB to create more Rows)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

     

In this ' + ' represents the column borders and ' - ' represents the length of the each column. Just try this...

UNDERSTANDING WOMEN

 We don't understand Women :
Their "Whatever" "Anything" OR "You Decide"

 1 . (Whatever)

 Men: What should we have for dinner?
 Women: Whatever..
Men: Why don't we have Mexican?
Women: No not Mexican, the last time i got pimples on my face
Men: Alright, why don't we have Szechwan cuisine
Women: Yesterday we ate Szechwan, today too?
Men: Hmm..... I suggest we have seafood
Women: Seafood is not good, I got diarrhea
Men: Then what do you suggest?
 Women : Whatever..

2. (Anything)

 Men: So what should we do now?
Women: Anything
Men: How about watching a movie? It's been a long time
Women: Watching movie is no good, it's a waste of time
 Men: How about we go for bowling, or some exercises?
 Women: Exercise on such a hot day?
Men: Then find a cafe and have a drink
 Women: I am off caffeine
 Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women: Anything

 3. (You decide)

 Men: Then do we just go home?
Women: You decide
 Men: Let's take the bus, I will accompany you
 Women: The bus is dirty and crowded.
Men: OK; we will take a cab
 Women: Not worth it... for such a short distance
Men: All right, then we can walk. We can enjoy the weather
Women: I am hungry, can't walk.
Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women: You decide
 Men: Let's have dinner first?
Women: Whatever...
Men: What shall we eat?
Women: Anything..

Important information about lipstick

 I got this useful information from one of my friends, frankly speaking am shocked to read this. The companies mentioned here may protest by saying there is nothing like that but at the same time does it hurt if we all are careful. I don't think so, so let's be more careful before we apply that  lovely lip color. Here goes the mail...

 


 
Some time last year there was a report on the news about lead contained in lipsticks in the market.  Melba Rego has graciously forwarded this valuable information to us.  Please take note and pass along to all your customers and loved ones.   
  
 
LIPSTICK INFORMATION:
Something to consider  
Next time you go shopping for Lipstick.......
This comes from someone
Who works in the breast cancer unit at
Mt. Sinai Hospital , in Toronto

From: Dr. Nahid Neman

                        If there is a woman you care anything about,
Share this with her..
I did!!!!!

                  I am also sharing this with the men on my e-mail list,
Because they need to tell the women
They care about as well!

                    Recently a lipstick brand called 'Red Earth'
decreased their prices from $67 to $9.90.

     It contained lead.

                        Lead is a chemical which causes cancer.

                       The lipstick brands that contain lead are:

                      CHRISTIAN DIOR

                      LANCÔME

                        CLINIQUE

                      Y.S.L

                       ESTEE LAUDER

                        SHISEIDO

                        RED EARTH (lip gloss)

                        CHANEL (lip conditioner)

                        MARKET AMERICA-MOTNES (lipstick)

                      The higher the lead content,
The greater the chance of causing cancer.

                      After doing a test on lipsticks,
it was found that the Y.S.L. lipstick
contained maximum amount of lead.

                      Watch out for those lipsticks
which are supposed to stay longer.

                      If your lipstick stays longer, it is
because of the higher content of lead.

                     Here is the test you can do yourself:

                      1. Put some lipstick on your hand.

                      2. Use a gold ring to scratch on the lipstick..

                      3. If the lipstick color changes to black,
  Then you know the lipstick contains lead.

                    Please send this information to all your girlfriends,
Wives and female family members.

                     This information is being circulated at
Walter Reed Army Medical Center

                       Dioxin Carcinogens cause cancer,
Especially breast cancer

 
 
Soula Petsis
Avon Canada Inc.
District Sales Manager 368
office 416-385-9886
fax    416-385-9884
www.avon.ca

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